Archive for the 'A “Bottoms” Perspective' Category

True BDSM F/f F/m “Domination” story – sex slave #Memoir

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This is a true story, related to you with trimmings of poetic license and elegant artistry. Long before the existence of Fifty Shades of Grey. This piece focuses on my earlier experiences as an S&M slave with a renowned Mistress to whom I was her personal subject. I was in my early (very early) 20’s, younger than the beloved Anastasia
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Give ‘Til It Hurts: Spanking Raffle Ft. Me & Cane-iac

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From Ms. Dana Kane’s blog: (Please e-mail her, danakanespanks@gmail.com to participate!  It would mean a lot to both of us, but most importantly – to the little guys who didn’t ask to be here and who can’t help themselves.  Whether you are an animal lover or not, you’ll be doing a good deed and getting the chance to win some awesome exclusive implements
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Free Spanking Pictures: After Effects

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  The other day a special guy friend and I went to see an amazing NYC Domina. I intend to blog about the session but since I’m too utterly depleted to do much writing today, I’ll display some pictures in the interim. Too bad there aren’t any images of the gorgeous perdicament bondage we were in.  But at least here are some
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Spanked in the name of Science by Ms. Dana Kane

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This was a particularly “interesting” spanking.  To help out all spanko’s, Dana and I conducted an experiment to conclusively prove that being spanked on a wet bottom hurts more than being spanked on a dry bottom.  We still could find no evidence of WHY this is the case, but at least speaking for myself – I can ASSURE you that
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Spanking Accountability Negotiation – upcoming Vegas trip

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Since I’m about to see my Top in Vegas in less than a week, naturally my misdeeds are weighing heavily on my mind.  My natural inclination is an immature one, with the nagging desire to beg, plead, negotiate, bribe or otherwise manipulate my way out of being accountable – just as a child might. I have tried this before, on
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Princess Angel & The Very Bad Whipping Boy

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This post is inspired by two people: Ms. Dana Kane (for making me realize it’s been way too long since I have done any brat blogging) and The Very Bad Boy (who asked me on twitter to team up again for a good ol’ brat fest). I am always well tempted when solicited by the Very Bad Boy, the ultimate Brat
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Spanking as a consensual supplement to clinical therapy?

In this post I plan to discuss how spanking has evolved. From what I remember, spanking used to be a standalone fetish activity strictly connected to a sexual experience – or so that is how it was made to be perceived. These spanking experiences were usually delivered at the hands of a professional dominatrix for a somewhat exorbitant fee – a
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Non-corporal Punishment(s)

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Recently I’ve been thinking about non-corporal punishments, given that domestic discipline must usually go beyond spanking alone in certain, special circumstances.  It might be the case where spanking is not enough of a detterent to stop the unwanted behavior, or where a spanking might actually act as positive reinforcement and encourage the behavior the Top is wishing to suppress in her bottom. There
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My first age-play video for a real life offense

Excited to announce this is my first age-play video related to real-life offenses as opposed to strictly role-play scenes.  It was a very interesting, profound and somewhat painful experience.  The costume made me feel particularly vulnerable, which always reducues my pain tolerance.  So although this particular scene is strictly hand-spanking – it was a very worthy hand-spanking that left both
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Headed to Vegas: Part accountability/Part Fun All Pain

It’s been a while, but I’m still here. Well tomorrow, here will actually be Vegas where I will be shooting some content with Ms. Dana Kane. A few things will be going on for your viewing pleasure.  We have some roleplay on schedule along with two genuine punishments.  One might be Delrin style in severity because I’ve been consistently engaging
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Response to: Conversations w/Spankos Chapter 12

FULL Response to Dana Kane’s Conversation with Spankos Chapter 12, which can be found here: http://danakane.blogspot.com Interesting Topic that I’ve felt compelled to respond to, since half the spanking world now knows myself and The Very Bad Boy as the community’s most determined, sometimes blindly unaware, brats.  I’m not sure about TheVBB, but I don’t think I’d be going out
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