Archive for the D/s Tag

True BDSM F/f F/m “Domination” story – sex slave #Memoir

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This is a true story, related to you with trimmings of poetic license and elegant artistry. Long before the existence of Fifty Shades of Grey. This piece focuses on my earlier experiences as an S&M slave with a renowned Mistress to whom I was her personal subject. I was in my early (very early) 20’s, younger than the beloved Anastasia
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Spanked for Tantrums – New F/f Punishment Video

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This is a spanking role-play video that Dana and I created.  She just released it on her member site and clips4sale.  Although we clearly used some creative license, the punishment was real.  I was spanked because I have a habit of throwing tantrums over stressors, not getting my way, feeling frustrated, and anything else you can think of.  I think Dana
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More Reasons for Spanking Punishments Next Vegas Trip

spanked for leaving a mess?

It is likely there is going to be part 2 to the “Surrounded by Stuff” spanking punishment, which was filmed several months ago along with the spanking punishments for overspending and breaking the rules.  All of these punishments were related and they occurred in such close proximity of one another that it would be almost impossible not to be affected
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A little ditty about “Topping from the Bottom.”

I’d just thought I’d take a moment to post this. I wrote it back in February as a response to Dana Kane’s blog post. I never posted it and since I’m in need of content and it came up in conversation recently, I thought I would take advantage of the opportunity. It might not be well received by a lot
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Response to: Conversations w/Spankos Chapter 12

FULL Response to Dana Kane’s Conversation with Spankos Chapter 12, which can be found here: http://danakane.blogspot.com Interesting Topic that I’ve felt compelled to respond to, since half the spanking world now knows myself and The Very Bad Boy as the community’s most determined, sometimes blindly unaware, brats.  I’m not sure about TheVBB, but I don’t think I’d be going out
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Thoughts on age-play/regression & Ms. Dana Kane’s related POV’s

Thoughts on age-play/regression & Ms. Dana Kane’s related POV’s Part One:  I am putting it into two posts, for those of you who can’t stand reading extremely long posts. Anyone who has known me for a while will know that I have heavily dabbled with age-play and regression, minus most of the physical aspects attributed to full-fledged infantilism. While things
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“Only Antidote to Mental Suffering is Physical Pain.”

Sometimes I wonder about my ability to withstand pain; but more often, I wonder about my will to withstand it.  Pain is naturally aversive.  We get our first impressions of this from the time we violently leave the comfort of the womb only to be thrust into a loud, cold, bright and inconceivable environment.  As we grow and explore our
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Psychological Dimensions of Spanking Part One

The Psychological Dimensions of Spanking: All in the Mind? Part I. I’ve recently had some inspiration to think of all things spanking, which has brought me back to the familiar conundrum of spanking as discipline, punishment, maintenance, and an outlet to fulfill psychosexual desires. Since this is the first time I have written anything substantial in what seems to be
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